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Crisis Hotline

Trevor Project

 (866) 488-7386

The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) young people ages 13-24. 

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

 (800) 273-8255 

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The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a national network of local crisis centers that provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  

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Crisis Text Line

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Crisis Text Line is free, 24/7 support for those in crisis. Text from anywhere in the USA to text with a trained Crisis Counselor. 

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(888) 843-4564

The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): (800) 246-7743

Provides telephone, online private one-to-one chat and email peer-support, as well as factual information and local resources for cities and towns across the United States. 

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PFLAG Hotlines

PFLAG National has a list of hotlines for youth, HIV/AIDS, abuse, and so much more. 

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Addiction Help

LGBTQ Substance Abuse Resources

 No one is immune to substance use disorder. It  can strike anyone at any time, regardless of age, gender, nationality,  ethnicity, class or sexual orientation. However, some groups are more at  risk to fall victim to drug and/or alcohol addiction than others.  Unfortunately, this is true for the LGBTQ community. This is mainly  because of the mental health disorders that develop in this community as  a result of abuse, discrimination, rejection and ostracism that they  undergo. The good news, however, is that many resources are available to  help members of this community conquer substance abuse.

If you or someone you love is a member of the LGBTQ community and is  also suffering from alcohol and/or drug addiction, this page may address  many of the questions that you have.

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Addiction Support

 Substance use disorders have a greater effect on LGBTQ+ people than on  the heterosexual population. The LGBTQ+ community must overcome several  obstacles, including being denied substance abuse treatment because of  their sexual identity. However, through the proper understanding and  accommodation of LGBTQ+ care principles, substance abuse treatment can  be successful. 

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Alcohol Addiction Support

Alcohol addiction is a disease that changes the way the brain works. It  causes negative emotions, impulsive behavior, cravings and withdrawal  symptoms. Treatment for alcohol addiction includes supervised detox,  counseling and therapy, and support group participation. 

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The Recovery Village

People in the LGBTQ+ community are more likely to experience social stigma, discrimination, rejection, abuse and ostracism from society and even their families. People who identify as anything but heterosexual often face more challenges in their life, in addition to daily stressors, and as a result are at a higher risk of developing mental health and substance use disorders.

While great strides have been made in the LGBTQ+ community towards equality, most LGBTQ+ individuals still experience prejudice and harassment. Discriminatory laws, practices in employment, housing, relationship recognition, health care, and challenges with family and friends still exist and can cause higher levels of anxiety, fear, isolation, depression, anger and mistrust for people in the LGBTQ+ community.

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LGBTQ+ Affirming Resources

What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?

"At the heart of the claim that the Bible is clear "that homosexuality is forbidden by God" is poor biblical scholarship and a cultural bias read into the Bible. The Bible says nothing about "homosexuality" as an innate dimension of personality. Sexual orientation was not understood in biblical times. There are references in the Bible to same-gender sexual behavior, and all of them are undeniably negative. But what is condemned in these passages is the violence, idolatry and exploitation related to the behavior, not the same-gender nature of the behavior. There are references in the Bible to different-gender sexual behavior that are just as condemning for the same reasons. But no one claims that the condemnation is because the behavior was between a man and a woman.

There was no word in Hebrew, Aramaic or Greek for "homosexual" or "homosexuality." These words were invented near the end of the 19th century when psychoanalysts began to discover and understand sexuality as an essential part of the human personality in all of its diversity. Consequently, it cannot be claimed that the Bible says anything at all about it. The writers of the Bible had neither the understanding of it nor the language for it. 

 There is only one reference to sexual behavior between women, and that is in Romans 1:26. The context of this reference has to do with Gentiles rejecting the true God to pursue false gods; i.e., idolatry. And, the sexual behavior described is orgiastic, not that of a loving, mutual, caring, committed relationship. What is condemned is the worship of false gods. 


Sexuality is a wonderful gift from God. It is more than genital behavior. It's the way we embody and express ourselves in the world. But we cannot love another person intimately without embodying that love, without using our bodies to love. And that does involve genital behavior. Sexual love is for the purpose of giving and receiving pleasure with our most intimate partner. It is a means of deepening and strengthening the intimate union that exists. This can only be healthy and good if our behavior is consistent with who we are and with whom we love, and when we are true to our own sexuality and orientation.

In regard to marriage, it's important to remember that the Bible was written in a patriarchal culture that assumed men were in control and women were subject to them. Marriage was not an equal partnership, but a matter of a man owning a woman or women as property. Women provided men companionship, children and labor. Certainly, love between the man and woman or women could develop, but love was not the basis of marriage. Consequently, the biblical concept of marriage is not appropriate today. We no longer accept the inferiority of women and superiority of men. We no longer accept marriage to be a property transaction. The concept of marriage has evolved throughout history. Today, we understand it to be a voluntary spiritual relationship based on love, respect, mutuality and commitment. What really matters is the quality of the relationship, not the gender of the persons involved. And marriage is created not by religious ceremony or civil government. It is created by the persons involved who make their commitments to one another. Whether or not there is a religious ceremony to celebrate the marriage or marriage license to legalize it, the marriage two people make together in private is real and valid and should be honored as such. I hasten to add that marriage should never be understood as a requirement for two people in relationship. Intimate relationships must not always create a marriage commitment. Marriage is a lifelong commitment that not everyone is willing to make or should make. Being single in an intimate relationship is an honorable choice.

How do I view God's position on "homosexuality?" I believe lesbian, gay and bisexual people to be a part of God's wondrous creation, created to be just who they are, and completely loved and treasured by God. I believe God does not intend for any one to be alone but to live in companionship. And I believe God expects healthy loving relationships to include sexual love. The Bible doesn't say this, of course. But neither does it deny it. I believe this to be true not only because of the Bible's emphasis on the goodness of God's creation and the supreme value of love, but because of the greater understanding of human nature that we have available to us today. I do not believe that God intends us to live in the small world of ancient biblical culture, but rather in God's larger evolving world informed by science, reason and experience." LGBTQ+ Affirming Resources

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 Founded in 1973 after the simple act of a mother publicly supporting her gay son, PFLAG is the nation's largest family and ally organization. 

 Uniting people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) with families, friends, and allies, PFLAG is committed to advancing equality through its mission of support, education, and advocacy. PFLAG has 400 chapters and 200,000 supporters crossing multiple generations of American families in major urban centers, small cities, and rural areas in all 50 states, the District of Columbia and Puerto Rico. This vast grassroots network is cultivated, resourced, and serviced by PFLAG National, located in Washington, D.C., the National Board of Directors and 13 volunteer Regional Directors. LGBTQ+ Affirming Resources

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Our Trans Loved Ones

 Written by PFLAG staff members, and created with the help of content experts, reviewers, and PFLAGers with experience to share, this publication is full of information, first-person stories, and expert input geared to those who have a loved one who has come out as trans or gender expansive.​ LGBTQ+ Affirming Resources

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Guide to Being a Trans Ally

 A publication from our Straight for Equality program, this guide will help you learn more about what transgender means, develop competency around talking about the issue, become better informed about the challenges that many trans people face, and know specific ways that you can be a strong trans ally. Transgender Affirming Resources

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The Trevor Project

Founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR, The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people under 25. Transgender Affirming Resources

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 The GALIP Foundation is a non profit 501(c)(3) organization dedicated to bringing the reconciling message of God’s love and reconciliation to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community. LGBTQ+ Affirming Resources

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Devotionals and Affirming Christian Readings

Where True Love Is

The Where True Love Is series offers Biblical explorations of God, scripture, gender, sexuality, marriage, & more.

Devotionals for every LGBTQI+ individual.

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Our Bible App

Mission: Our Bible App supports the belief that spirituality is a spectrum and that faith is a journey. At its core, the holy texts were written to be inclusive of all of God's creation, especially those on the margins. Our Bible App is bringing it back to the roots, celebrating the diversity of God's creation with devotionals highlighting the inclusiveness of the text. Whether one goes to church to find spiritual clarity or to the sanctuary of nature, Our Bible App supports the belief that we are each trying to understand our place in this grand universe. Our goal is to untangle the binds that Christian colonizers have spread across the globe over hundreds of years. Through highlighting devotionals that are pro-LGBT, pro-women, and encourage interfaith inclusivity, we hope to provide a tool that is needed to create healthy prayer and meditation habits.

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Trans Resources

Name Change Laws by State

 Welcome to our one-stop hub for name and gender change information. Find out how to get a legal name change where you live and update your name/gender on state and federal IDs and records.

How friendly is the driver’s license gender change policy in your state? Transgender Affirming Resources

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Change Gender Marker on Birth Certificate

 The policies for changing gender markers on birth certificates vary state by state, resulting in a complicated patchwork of processes across the country. This resource provides an overview of which states have a process for updating gender markers on birth certificates, and provides the basic outline of what those states’ policies look like. Transgender Affirming Resources

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Change Gender Marker on Social Security

 Under current policy, a transgender person can change their gender on their Social Security records by submitting either government-issued documentation reflecting a change, or a certification from a physician confirming that they have had appropriate clinical treatment for gender transition. Transgender Affirming Resources

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Change Gender Marker on Passport

 In June 2010, the State Department announced a policy to issue passports that reflect a person’s current gender. Under this policy, a transgender person can obtain a passport reflecting their current gender by submitting certification from a physician confirming that they have had appropriate clinical treatment for gender transition. No specific medical treatment is required. This policy replaced the Department’s old policy, which required documentation of sex reassignment surgery. Transgender Affirming Resources

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FTM Top Surgery Guide


FTM Top Surgery is a gender affirming procedure for transgender men and non-binary individuals that creates a masculine chest. Top Surgery involves breast removal (Subcutaneous Mastectomy) and male chest contouring, and may also include free nipple grafts, or nipple/areola resizing and repositioning.

Top Surgery is the most commonly performed gender reassignment surgery for trans masculine people. Top Surgery helps one to live more comfortably, improving psychological and social functioning, and it may be the only surgical step that one takes in their transition. Transgender Affirming Resources

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MTF Surgery Guide

 MTF Surgery provides comprehensive patient education for trans women seeking Male-to-Female Transsexual Surgery, plus a directory of select Surgeons who perform MTF Surgery. Use our free resources to find the procedure and Surgeon that are right for you. Transgender Affirming Resources

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